Dear Mr. Positivity,

It has been said, “There is a reason for everything.” The answer doesn’t always appear right away but would fall into place. It is too foggy in my life to see those answers / or have a better understanding / or knowing what is the right direction to choose – for the age I am, I cannot afford (literally) to make the wrong decisions.

My immediate family moved out of state while I stayed behind due to my family/career.

Years passed and the first occurance was due to a dissolution of marriage and so it was a tough decision but to move and live with my immediate family. But my daughter stays with her biological father while I move.

Was it the right choice for me to make?

A year later my father is diagnosed with stage four lung cancer (already having other health complications). Am I right to believe my marriage was not meant to last so I would go home and appreciate the time left with my parents? Would it make sense that my daughter is left behind so she would not suffer seeing my father’s pain?

So I am continuing my life starting on a clean slate (or feeling that I would be able to start a new). A friend is attached with financial issues in which I have become involved to help… But I cannot help no more. This has brought a great deal of stress and choas in my life. What happened to that clean slate? Why did this happen during the most confusing point in my life? Will the ending of this issue be okay and will the stress come to an end? With this happening I cannot see clearly where I am suppose to go or what I am suppose to do. What is this obstacle that came into my life at this point in time when I have no clue which way I am going?

Anyone have a map I can use? Am a bit lost.

Christine

Let’s clear some of that fog, shall we?

You need to trust that everything does happen for a reason and more importantly exactly as it should. The proof for that is it happened. If it was not meant to be it wouldn’t have happened.

What you are doing now is having a severe case of second guessing. You are second guessing what you consider to be all the big decisions that you have made thus far. Trust in your choices …

Your choice in regards to your daughter and father was made to protect your daughter from seeing her grandfather go through that. It was an act of love and the Universe provided the way for which you would protect her.

Christine, with regards to your clean slate, you invited this new obstacle by becoming involved. If you feel that you have done all you can than take comfort in that. It important that as a “go to person” one doesn’t take on issues personally. Another words, if you are helping a friend understand that ultimately it is your friends “hurdle” and don’t own it. You can guide and advise and help a little but ultimately they need to find their own way. It is, after all, something they chose to go through

Now, here is a harsh truth, the only person allowing confusion and stress into your life is … YOU.

So, to gain some clarity, write a list of the things you are second guessing and then write all the positive things that have come from it. Make the POSITIVE your new focal point …

Free yourself by your “go to person” mentality by separating what truly belongs to you and what doesn’t. We cannot live another person’s life for them — we can act as their guide, love them, support them, and inspire them but CANNOT live or choose for them.

As for the map, you already possess it! You are merely trying to read it in the dark and hopefully, I have shed some light on it.

Positively Yours,

Mr. Positivity

Dear Mr. Positivity,

I enjoy reading your statuses on FB (Facebook) so much. The inspirational ones particularly are fantastic.

I’m wondering, and ALWAYS wondering what it is that I’m supposed to be doing career wise. Right now and for the last ten or so years, I’ve been serving, and I just feel that I can’t do it for much longer, and that I was meant to do something greater. I just struggle with what? that is.

Anyways, I’m sure you’re bombarded with emails, and there are others you need to help, so I’ll just say thankyou! and wish you and your family a lovely christmas and fabulous new year. Thank you for the friend request on FB, my life is richer for having accepted.

Kind regards,
Trisha

First, I must say that there is NOTHING greater than being in service!

I believe the underlying problem here is your lack of passion for which mode of service you are currently doing. You have fallen into a routine and thus have become bored and lost your enjoyment of providing such a service.

So, if you are seeking to change your career ask yourself;

“What am I passionate about?”
“What could I see myself doing that wouldn’t feel like work?”

See, I believe what you are truly seeking is something that you feel better doing, yes? When one follows what they are passionate about they will undoubtedly be doing a career which in their eyes is worth doing. Yet, when one is out of alignment with their passion they find themselves in a career they are unhappy about doing because it isn’t providing their soul with the satisfaction of following their passion.

Trisha, you need to figure out what you are passionate about and only then will you have the answer to “What am I supposed to be doing career wise?”

Much Love and Light to you and yours this Holiday Season.

Passionately Yours,

Mr. Positivity

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The following was a question asked on Facebook … I thought it fit to share here as well …

Dear Mr. Positivity;

I would like to know , is it possible for people to drain your energy from you by their negativity.

Thank You,

Tracey

Tracey, in my opinion, weakens the mind, the body, and by in large blocks the spiritual flow of positivity. So, in a way, yes negativity drains us in many facets of the human experience. Negative build up can actually manifest as a physical illness…which means that your immune system was effected by negative thought.

Your strength alone is affected. Try this at some point … You’ll need a partner …

Extend your arm out in from of you and repeat 3 times, “I’m good enough.” Have your partner try and push your arm down as you resist.

Repeat aloud to yourself three times, “I’m not good enough” as you have your arm extend outward in front of you. Then, have your partner try and push it down as you resist. Watch what happens…

Next, try the same technique only this time repeat 3 times, “I’m good enough.”

What is the result? You’ll see …

Tracey Responded with;

thank you william , my immune system does not exsist at the moment because i have M.E. / CFS due to stress and constant infection, thats so amazing , im going to do what youve said and look into it more………..THANK YOU XX

I replied with …

Tracey, stress is a state of mind. Often this occurs when we are feeling overwhelmed or less than, right? In remaining, positive you are telling your body that you have what it takes to overcome any obstacle or challenge. By getting in a stressful state of mind — you are surrendering by saying “STOP…it’s too much. I can’t handle it…OR some other variation.”

The Law of Attraction then says that by your thoughts you shall attract similar situations. SO, when one is constantly feeling stress it’s due to the fact that they are consistently attracting stress by constantly feeling stressed.

Stress is another method of telling yourself, your body, and your spirit .. “I’m not good enough.”

When the exact opposite is true…YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH…

Try that exercise that I mentioned and get back to me…

As we enter into the dawning of a new year many will be making “resolutions”. Some of these resolutions will be fulfilled and others won’t be. However, whether or not a resolution sees through to completion depends on the person.

During this time, many people set goals using wishful thinking and thus don’t believe the goal will ever truly be met. For example, when I was a child my adoptive mom would always say she was going to quit smoking … she is still a smoker today!

Have you found yourself in a similar situation where you set a goal you knew wouldn’t see daylight? I think we all have. Some, like my adoptive mother, set goals they aren’t ready to see come to fruition – like stopping smoking, drinking, etc. While others set goals that are advantageous in nature – similar to standing at the base of Mount Everest getting ready to climb doubting you’ll reach the top.
What happens when we don’t achieve the goal? We feel devalued and thus feel like a failure. Not reaching a goal doesn’t make you a failure, but you due to Ego and the fear based reality, feel like one nonetheless. Especially, if you actually worked hard to attain the goal and still it was out of your grasp.

NOTHING IS TRULY OUT OF YOUR GRAP! YOU ARE FULLY CAPABLE OF ATTAINING ANYTHING YOU ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT EXPERIENCING.

The key word is passionate. Passion is a prime source of motivation and manifesting. Many set goals because they “think” they would enjoy the experience or society tells them they should. Yet, as in the case of my adoptive mother, the lack of passion in her quest to quit smoking led to a goal unfulfilled.

Moreover, when you think of your life and whether or not you are happy, content, or miserable – look to if you are following your passion. A person who is truly happy is undoubtedly following their passion and on their way to fulfillment. Yet, those that are not in alignment with their passion feel at most content and many are miserable.

Take your career, for example, are you happy to wake up and go to work? Do you enjoy your work? Does your work feel like work? Are you stressed at work? If you answered yes, then you are NOT in alignment with your passion when it comes to work. If you were … work wouldn’t feel like work at all. In fact, it would be enjoyable – imagine that!

So, before setting your New Year’s Resolution ask yourself, “What am I passionate about?”
Then set a resolution that is in alignment with your passion The universe will play its roll in carrying you ever forward towards reaching it.

Some idea’s for a New Year’s Resolution:

1. I will be more positive in the coming year.
2. I will be more generous this year.
3. I will donate X amount to charity.
4. I will be a better listener.
5. I will befriend someone I ordinarily wouldn’t .
6. I will be more empathetic to my spouses needs.
7. I will see the value in my life as it has been lived thus far

Those are really great resolutions that with little effort could be accomplished. The other thing is that you can set more than one resolution that is in alignment with your passion.

Your reality is as you perceive it to be. So, it is true, that by altering this perception we can alter our reality.

You have the power to change everything you don’t enjoy about your life. You do not have the power to change anything about another’s life.

What if; The meaning of life is to be — be yourself, be a friend, be love, be light, be laughter, be joy, be abundantly you?